Saturday, September 27, 2008

live and learn...day 2...finally!!

i had planned to do a post every day about each day of the conference. but then life happened and i just never got around to it. but i couldn't just let it go without at least finishing up the story of our first L&L experience. so i'm going to just continue at my own pace, as usual...
day 1

day 2:
scotty and i pulled ourselves out of bed early to get ready for breakfast (which was not easy after our first late night). when samuel realized we were up, he jumped out of bed and mumbled over and over...i gotta go, i gotta go. he had big plans that started early and finished late. he intended to not miss a minute, and he didn't. silas and sadie were a little less anxious to get out of bed, but then they remembered where we were and that breakfast was being served soon and they got up. after breakfast we all had different things we wanted to do, so we headed in different directions. the kids and i went to make buttons, while scotty went to ben's talk on hosting house concerts. he got a kick out of showing everyone the schedule i wrote for him. he kept telling people that i said he HAD TO go to all these things. no no no, that is not the way it went down at all. the night before, we had gone through the list of events together and these are the things he wanted to do...i was just writing out different schedules for each person so they wouldn't forget where they wanted to be (it was easy to get distracted and forget). anyway...

i went to andrea's belly dance workshop with sadie and sierra while the boys ran off to play video games or hang out with friends. the belly dancing was fun but frustrating. i like to learn new things, but i just don't think i'm a good dance student. i have way too much of my own need to move my own way. the music she played was awesome and i just wanted to dance. but i chose to listen and learn some new things. stretched some muscles that needed stretching and had a really good time. then we got to go to lunch!!! i was starving!! i have no idea (meaning i cannot remember now) what scotty was doing at this time, i think this was one of the times he played basketball with ben, broc and some other guys, but we met for lunch and talked about our mornings. there's this foggy place in my mind during and after lunch (surprise surprise)...but eventually i got my stuff and headed to the lobby for the untrepreneurial fair. i set up my goods and hung out next to nancy and the stonebrakers on the floor. samuel set up his comic books as well. we made some good sales but i'm pretty sure he sold the most that day. he had quite a few fans by the end of the conference. i heard this a lot...oh, you're samuel's mom, he's really talented! it was not new news to me, but it was really nice to hear. at some point scotty came to visit us. i know this only because there is this picture of us together in the middle of my 'un-fair' pix...thank goodness for cameras or i would never be able to tell a story!! i think he had just come from (or was headed to) one of eli gerzon's talks on worldschooling.some more sellers - alex, sophie, and max!! i bought a pillow from sophie =)

happy tired lady!! (sadie was taking lots of pictures for me...if she hadn't, i might not remember any of this!)

sadie bought this cute key chain. on the floor you can see the potholder i bought from the same little girl.

the fair ran until 5 but there were talks to go to so i shut down around 3 so that scotty and i could make it to james coburn's talk on wholelife unschooling. scotty left early to go to what was probably the most important round table discussion of the conference for him...the SSUDs group. SSUDs stands for 'Secret Society of Unschooling Dads.' this was the one and only group of the entire conference that was discriminatory. it was only for dads!! no moms, no kids. just dads. and i thought that was really a great idea. he came away from it with a renewed energy about the choices we've made as a family. he got to talk to other dads just like him. he also got to meet some stay at home dads. that's something for an entire post in itself. maybe i'll get HIM to write something about that.

by this point, i had met and re-met so many wonderful people that i was floating on a cloud. all my doubts and apprehensions about coming to the conference had lifted away. there was an amazing energy in the air that was contagious and inspiring. i soaked up as much as i possibly could. i believe i still have some left in my back pocket for safe keeping.

after the fair, we met up for dinner where he filled me in on his almost overwhelming experience at the SSUDs talk. we got to eat with jessica and talk for awhile. it was really nice. i can honestly say that i did not know where the boys were at this time. oh my. well, i knew they were somewhere in the dining hall, but i did not know where. the eating situation was interesting for such a large group of radical unschoolers. we were on a schedule. we had to be there within a 45 minute time frame that the buffet was available or we got no food. period. what an adjustment for people used to eating when they're hungry and not by the clock. but we're all pretty used to being part of the bigger world as well and so we adjusted just fine.

at some time during the day, i found a gift in the lobby from my fairy godparent (who i found out later was actually a whole family, the sabos). what a thrill!! i had been having such a good time being the fairy mama to brai that i nearly forgot that i would get to enjoy being surprised as well. it was so wonderful to suddenly be reminded that there was someone out there thinking up ways to make me feel special.

after eating, there was enough time to get ourselves together and head over to the talent show. i was a little disappointed that the boys had decided to hang out with their friends instead of joining us. it was so much fun, we laughed and had a really great time...i just kept having those moments where i'd think of how much they would've liked a particular performance and i would miss them even more. but they had their own magical time, of course!!!

here are some amazing peeps:
the haworth's - alex, max, sophie, ella, and mindy, all dressed up and ready for a good time!!
the stonebrakers - clint, shelby, and wendy...purple people eaters!!!
kelli and rachel...lovely smiles ladies!
rachel, ren, and george...hey rachel, you were just everywhere!!!

some wild turning talent...these girls rocked. one did the hula hoop, while the other spun in place the entire time...like 3 minutes...WOW!! check out that huge orb!!

broc and ben doing their soul man routine...absolutely hilarious!!!

brenna on the piano, playing free fallin' by tom petty...oh my, i hope i'm remembering this right.
a dance routine where suddenly they got as many people up on stage to dance as they could...really wonderful and so much fun to watch!
sophie, sadie, and kyra hanging out and watching the show along with...
sierra and aleah (who i had the pleasure of hanging out with last night along with her brother tyler).

there was a lot of talent that i didn't even get pictures of, but luckily there are a gazillion other posts out there by much more organized bloggers than myself!!
by the time this was all over, i was exhausted!! i thought i would head back to the room and go to bed (ya know, because getting up the next day was going to be even harder!)...yeah, that didn't happen. what did happen was more hanging out in the lobby!!
ben and devil jeff, even satan and his sidekick have to get their internet fix...getting this picture reminded me that i had a camera and so i started taking pix of all the tired people in the lobby.

the amazing duo kelly and kelli...is it bedtime yet???
robyn and tammy deep in a philosophical unschooling discussion.

more great conversation (including sleeping child in arms) over here as well...

and wild coloring here (and of course, another sleeping child in arms)
robyn, joni and i (after i had gone to the room and changed into pajamas!!)
i believe that's kai, and sadie coloring here. sadie had somehow already gotten into her pajamas, she came up to me and was changed and i couldn't figure out how she'd gotten into the room. turns out that kyra's room key worked on our door. she was in the room just below ours, it also worked on the room just below hers...weird.
karina, turner aka 'kenny', samuel and silas hanging out, having a blast. karina and samuel are birthday buddies, born just hours apart (depending on if you want to count the coast to coast time difference or not).
i think she's ready to go to bed now...

the kids had an amazing time hanging out, running around, and playing video games with their friends. scotty, sadie, and i finally got tired enough to go to bed around 1:30 and the boys came to bed at around 2 in the morning and i could finally sleep. or was this the night they came in at 4?? it is a little fuzzy at this point.

'til next time...
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4 comments:

Ren said...

Ah...fuzzy conference memories are the best!
Thanks for helping me relive it again. I can't wait to see everyone at ARGH.:)

Beachbum said...

Thank you! I needed to read someone elses crazy time at the conference. It was great to see Jeff and Kade in a few pics, too. Kade loves Samuel's comic, btw! Also, that is Andrew, not Kai in the pic with the coloring...Kai did hang with Andrew a lot, though. Having a touch of that conference vibe in your back pocket is vital...thanks for reminding me to take note of the stash I have with me. Hugs to you all!

FLO said...

Yay and now I have YOUR blog to add to MY blogroll! I love your pictures- such a reminder of happy times (and tired ones, too!) Did you ever get my email about Sadie's fairy godparent? It was my daughter, Camille!

They do grow up fast. And you're right, it's exciting to enjoy them every step of the way.

I love your blog, especially for your candor and joy! Thank you for sharing.

Kass said...

Would you please upload your conference pictures on flicker?

I liked this entry. I'm waiting for day 3, 4, and 5...Then of course there is the after party...And the party after the after party ;)